Fragmented Thoughts 1: Wearing my comfort, no apologies!

Struggling to fit into fashion trends? Here's my heartfelt take on choosing comfort over societal expectations when it comes to dressing up. Be yourself unapologetically!

Dressing Up Is Fun — But Not Always

Dressing up has always been seen as fun and exciting. But for me, it wasn’t always that simple.
Right from childhood, I struggled with fitting into the "expected" way of dressing — whether it was at school, college, events, parties, trips, or even at work.

There was always a silent (and sometimes loud) pressure to wear clothes in a way that pleased others. Trends, flattering fits, or styles that fit the "vibe" of a group were the norm. And when I tried to keep up with these expectations, it only led me to feel uncomfortable and disconnected from myself.

I vividly remember attending a friends' meet where a friend casually suggested I wear something more "Western" to blend in. Another time, I was called out for wearing a simple kurta to a movie.

Even at family gatherings, women relatives would urge me to "doll up" and not look too simple. But sometimes, I'm just not in the mood to dress up in a certain way.
And when I force myself to, it triggers a sense of disconnection — slowly turning into social anxiety.

It’s not just about clothes. Accessories, hairstyles, and the way we present ourselves also come under scrutiny.

Once, at my office, a friend and a colleague mocked me for wearing a dupatta and braiding my hair — something I personally find beautiful and comfortable.

And let's not even get started on the silent judgment that comes with posting pictures on social media. It sometimes feels like no matter what you do, it's never enough to meet everyone's expectations.

Over time, I realized something important:
I feel my best when I'm dressed comfortably, not when I’m trying to fit into trends.

Today, I choose to wear clothes that are simple, sometimes oversized, and definitely not grandeur. Comfort has become my style statement — and it brings a different, powerful kind of confidence.

Fashion trends will come and go, but staying true to yourself never goes out of style.
Wearing what you love, how you love it, and when you love it — without seeking validation — is a form of self-respect.

So, dress for yourself. Wear your comfort unapologetically. Because the real you is your best outfit.